REASONS I PREFER A MALE BESTFRIEND
Some people for some reasons, always seem to disagree with me for having male friends, and a male for a best friend. I’m not arguing or trying to be odd, like i posted in my article sometime ago I will always prefer males as best friend than the female folks.
Most times of my life, I’ve been a girl with male best friends. I don’t mean that in some gross, off-putting manner-like
“I don’t get along with other women because I am way too sexxxy” kind of way. But for whatever reason, I’ve typically also had more close male friends than the average lady.
When you’re a woman with a male best friend, people think that you’re up to something. They can’t quite agree
on what it is — are you trying to get laid? Trying to inflate your ego by being the “cool girl”? Trying to do
both at the same time?
And even if all that judgment doesn’t bother you personally, you still have to deal with the weird hang-ups of your other friends, your family, and even science. There are new psychological studies conducted seemingly every year devoted to picking apart the extremely pressing question of whether men and women can be friends, even though they never seem to come to any concrete answers. (Over the course of two years, Scientific American covered one 2012 study that claimed that men and women can’t be friends because men are disgusting horn-dog monsters, and one 2013 study that showed that men and women can be friends.)
And yes, sometimes, male BFFs do end up becoming something more. But often times, they don’t. And no matter what happens,
women with male best friends aren’t pulling some kind of sexual long con. I’m not saying we deserve a medal for dealing with
the pressure of everyone’s suspicions and expectations and still managing to maintain kick-ass friendships in the process,
but … okay, maybe I am saying that.
REASONS WHY I PREFER A MALE BESTIE IS THIS:
1. THEY CAN BE SUCCESSFUL MATCHMAKERS: THis group of humans can be so sweet, that they want you to go on blind dates, and even go the extent of fixing your cloths and makeup for a date.
2. MALE BESTIE’s ARE MORE LIKE A BODYGUARD: The most hideous advantage of having a guy best friend is that they can also play the role of a body guard for guys tend to more protective than your lady friends.
3. THEY CAN FILL IN MULTIPLE ROLES: Guy best friends can make themselves versatile to be filling in any role you want them to be, like a long-lost brother, a boyfriend you never, in all a friend you can just talk to freely.
4. THEY ARE MUCH LESS DRAMA: Hanging out with guys is one thing every girl should try more often. These guys are less dramatic: no emotional issues, no gossip and everyone has fun.
5. THEY CAN STAND ALL YOUR DIRTY TALK: This set of friends, you can be with at anyplace and time, talk crap with them and they don’t judge you.
6). THEY CAN STAND YOUR ENTIRE ALCOHOL ATTITUDE: It’s easy to get drunk with a guy best friend for they can provide you with all the assurance you need to feel free, act dumb and be yourself.
The thing is there are lots of reasons i prefer a male bestie. But more reasons will come with time.
So, if your’re a female and you got this crazy, cool male bestie. Just keep him close. Faithful ones are rare.
I hope this article “REASONS I PREFER A MALE BESTFRIEND” was helpful?